The emotional landscape of my life is a different universe than the intellectual landscape.
Like all kids, I was a born poet.
I was naturally gifted to see the rainbow in the oily puddle in the road.
Then – my language improved, I started articulating better, became aware of subtle nuances of communication, geometrically expanded my vocabulary and… promptly gave up on poetry.
What if I got my poetry back ?
Are you Single and Lonely?
Married and Bored?
When I walk into a restaurant or a coffee-shop – I assume the role of a customer.
And the person serving me assumes the role of a waiter.
I play my role – some characterisics of which are to expect , demand some things, even if they mean inconveniencing the other human who plays the role of a waiter.
The waiter plays his role – some characteristics of which are to fulfill my desires, even if it means inconveniencing himself.
Busy playing our roles, both of us fail to notice the inherent humanity glowing within the other.
If I am a boss, and you are my subordinate. We are not two human beings sharing humanity.
If I am a father, and you are my child, here is the rulebook for that. Please fit in. We are not two human beings growing together.
If I am an expert, and you are not – I cannot say “I don’t know” because that is not acceptable to the game we are playing.
If we stop acting our roles out and start acting human, how will our experience change.
Conversations are reflections of who we are being in that moment.
Think about it, how does a deep, honest, intense, touching, passionate, incredible conversation leave you feeling – energized, recharged…. Your personal energy increased and the world a little bit brighter than it was earlier, isn’t it?
And how does a shallow, superficial, pretentious conversation leave you feeling… drained out, tired?
In a conversation when we express the deepest and the best parts of ourselves (invariably, the deepest part of us is usually the best part of us), we express or manifest our true selves.
In fact, life is expression, isn’t it?
In fact, we cannot not express.
Right now, as you read these words, infinite potentialities and possibilities exist within you. The very next moment, what you think, decide, do or say is an expression of one of these infinite potentialities.
When we express a potentiality or a possibility, we bring a latent or a hidden part of ourselves into existence. As we bring it into existence, we experience it and it becomes, our experience.
If we habitually express a part of ourselves again and again – it becomes a pattern of experience in our lives and we start ‘believing’ that we are ‘it’.
But, at that point – every other potentiality and possibility also exists – latent, hidden, unexpressed.
If you want to assess the quality of your experience and the quality of your life – take a closer look at the quality of your conversations.
Conversation is a tool we use everyday, regularly to express ourselves.
The quality of your conversations would probably reveal a great deal about what you are bringing forth from the world of infinite possible expressions called – you!!
To improve the quality of your experience, improve the quality of your conversations.
If your conversations are happy, intense, passionate, happy, contended, joyful, cheerful and ‘soul’ful… then so are you!